Beat the Odds, Bet on Love with eHarmony

Our bold, research approach to online dating means more quality dates
with deeply compatible singles that truly understand you.

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there’s a lot of in here

Chances are you’re looking for it. We’re here to help you find it. We put our heart into making meaningful connections that lead to long-lasting relationships.

how does it work?


You plus eHarmony!

This is where we first meet. You start by taking our Relationship Questionnaire – look at it more like an exercise to get your heart really moving. It is designed to help us get to know you at a deeper level. It’s the first step in finding love. Take it! It’s comprehensive and at times revealing, but don’t worry, it’s a lot of fun and a breeze to get through.

be yourself...you're awesome

It's important to be honest when answering the questionnaire – it is not a test, so relax and have fun! Don't worry if you're messy or you get sweaty palms – it makes us who we are. We ask you these questions so we can match you with people who are truly compatible with you. So exhale and let it all go. And to make things even easier, you can take the questionnaire on the go, anywhere using your mobile device, iPad, or desktop.

try it out - see how easy it is

ah, the magic!

As they say, this is where it happens... no, not there, but in the matching labs. How do we match? Great question. There’s a lot of research that goes into our matchmaking process. We dig deeper to get to know you better while identifying matches with the highest potential for a successful relationship.

This is what separates us from our competitors. We search among millions of singles based on Key Dimensions that are crucial for relationship success – our secret sauce is the way we understand who you are and who you match best with using the latest technology.

this is where it gets exciting!

Ding!Your matches are ready

Review your matches' profiles

Pick a membership that works best for you

Start talking with your matches

eharmony delivers you a few matches at a time so you can focus on each one. It’s ok to do jumping heel clicks at this stage. Once matched, review their profiles. Pick a membership that works best for you. Then start talking with your matches – you’ll see how organic the process becomes with Guided Communication and features to let you talk to matches a comfortable pace for you.

hello, nice to meet you

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We make meaningful introductions – only compatible matches fill your inbox. That means the chances are high that you’re going to get along with them, at the very least. And once you start communicating you’ll find out if sparks are there.

Get to know your matches at your own pace — ask pre-selected, meaningful questions to get to know your matches quickly or say it your way with a custom message.

you're in good hands



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We take your privacy and security very seriously — so only your matches can see you and you must be a member to see photos. This is unlike our competitors who allow users to randomly search for people and contact them. Not in our house.

Join eHarmony today and let the fireworks begin, cue the symphony, and enjoy the excitement of finding someone who truly understands you. Finding a great relationship on eHarmony is within reach and we’re here to help you grab hold of it.

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